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A lot of us are familiar with foul language. We hear it from our neighbors, our coworkers, and the media we consume is full of it. Foul language has become so mainstream that we sometimes struggle to distinguish it from other types of verbal communication.


While cussing and the use of coarse, foul, and obscene words have become commonplace nowadays, God's take on it is very different from ours. The Bible repeatedly warns believers to be cautious about what they say and how they express themselves.


In the past, I would have defined foul language as the words and expressions that a person would not use in front of their parents or their pastors. However, the word has changed so much that the average parent and, dare I say, pastor now expresses themselves with coarse language. And since we no longer censor most foul words, I also can't say that foul language refers to the words that get bleeped out of songs and shows.


Nevertheless, permit me to say that cussing/foul language refers to coarse and obscene words and concepts that would be unacceptable in polite or formal speech. Think about the words you'd avoid if you were speaking to royalty. Those words that you apologize for when they slip past your lips during a discussion with someone you know who doesn't talk that way.


God's take is found in Colossians 3:8 - But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Then we are told in Ephesians 5:4 - Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.


God takes what He says seriously. This is why an angel told Mary that no word from God will ever fail (Luke 1:37). Is it possible that, having been made in His image, He takes the words we speak very seriously as well? Indeed, it is. This is why He warns in Proverbs 18:21 - The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences (NLT). He also says in Proverbs 21:23 - Watch your tongue and keep your mouth shut, and you will stay out of trouble (NLT). An unguarded tongue that is allowed to say whatever it likes will corrupt the whole body and send the person to hell (James 3:6).


It is only the wicked who use perverse, coarse, ungodly language, according to Proverbs 10:32. Why would we, the people who claim to believe in Jesus and what He taught, then choose to be like the wicked in the way that we speak? Shouldn't we desire to obey our Savior's instructions as well as those of His Father so we can be counted among the righteous?


Let us be more mindful of how we express ourselves, avoiding foul language, coarse terms, and obscene expressions when we speak. This also applies to written communications. A lot of us ignore the actual meaning of some of the abbreviated terms we use when chatting online or on our phones. Take a second look at that acronym you typed. What does each letter stand for? Now, ask yourself if that is how God wants you to express yourself?


The Lord will help us all as we learn how to speak worthy and not worthless words, and not to express lewd and obscene concepts when we communicate. May He help us avoid the places, people, and media that normalize such speech. May He help us to guard our hearts, for that is where our speech originates from, IJMN Amen.



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Take a look at this man. What do you think He's doing?



For those who don't know, let me explain. That man is calling on the gods he believes in to do... something. He's at a soccer game at the 2024 African Cup of Nations, to be specific. He might be praying for his favorite team to win or for the opposing team to lose. He could also want a particular player to perform well or another to perform poorly. He might also be doing all of these at once.


Look at the concentration on his face. Does he look like he's fooling around? He likely made certain sacrifices before coming to the game. He might have killed some animals, slept in a graveyard, or done something even more heinous, as commanded by the gods he believes in. I'm almost certain that man did everything he was required to do before coming to the stadium for the match. And as you can see, the requirements weren't over. Here he is, in public, waving the tools of his 'faith' because he is committed to his cause and willing to do what it takes to have what he wants.​


Dear believer, when was the last time you showed such dedication and zeal for the things of God? I'm not talking about going to a Christian music concert. Nor am I talking about going to a Bible convention. I'm not even referring to going to church and giving tithes and offerings. When last did you zone in on the Lord and what He desires for you to do?


We've previously learned that we need to give God what He wants to get what we want. Are you taking this seriously? Are you making time to fast and pray? Are you being intentional in giving God your praise and thanksgiving? Do you fellowship with the brethren? Are you making choices and acting in a way that reflects your role as an ambassador of God's kingdom? Are you studying your Bible consistently? How about intercession? When last did you make an effort to help the needy in your community? When was the last time you genuinely encouraged others and shared God's word with them?​


As believers, we can't afford to be lax in our dealings with the King of kings. We can't ignore that there is a protocol for entering His presence. Psalm 100:4 - Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. We can't ignore what He's told us to do and live as we want, unrestrained by His expectations. Everywhere we look, the followers of satan actively serve their false god. Look around you, and you will see they are no longer covert. They boldly assert themselves and their evil deeds. Meanwhile, those who claim to be God's children cower, afraid to mention 'Jesus' because they worry they'll offend somebody.


We wouldn't be worried if we were faithful in the secret place. If we were regularly doing the things mentioned above, then we'd hear from the Lord as to where to go and what to do to have an impact for the Kingdom of Heaven. And God Himself would back us up each time. Instead, the thought of fasting, praise and worship (that focuses on God and not how we feel), and tarrying in prayer frightens and frustrates many Christians. Far too few believers know how to apply Kingdom Keys and end up being powerless against a real and present enemy. The man above likely spent time doing what was necessary to honor the god(s) he serves, which is why he could attend that game and practice his beliefs in plain view. I assure you, nobody stopped him, and people were likely too scared to interfere.


This message is as much for me, the writer, as it is for you, the reader. We all think we're doing enough, but there is room to improve. God deserves more of our time, and we have it to give. Think about how much time we spend doing the things we enjoy. If we cut a few minutes from that and dedicate them to the Lord, we'd all spiritually bulk up and be more effective for God's purposes. And we would come to enjoy it. May He help us to get better at using more of our time for Him and doing what was necessary to honor the god(s) he serves, which is why he could attend that game and practice his beliefs in plain view. I assure you, nobody stopped him.


This message is as much for me, the writer, as it is for you, the reader. We all think we're doing enough, but there is room to improve. God deserves more of our time, and we have it to give. Think about how much time we spend doing the things we enjoy. If we cut a few minutes from that and dedicate them to the Lord, we'd all spiritually bulk up and be more effective for God's purposes. And we would come to enjoy it. May He help us to get better at using more of our time for Him and doing what pleases Him with zeal so we will not be unserious Christians, IJMN, Amen.


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Being a Christian can be tough in the world we live in. So much of what is commonplace directly contradicts the word of the Lord. For instance, lying is no longer taboo in our societies. In fact, people are expected to use deception and lies to advance. As a result, many apply the 'fake it till you make it' approach, unaware that at its root is an intent to deceive, which God detests and punishes. There's also a push to look like celebrities at all times. This perspective goes beyond what many of us were raised with, which was to be appropriately dressed and presentable.


This can create pressure for believers. How should we dress? What should we do with our hair? How do we display our Kingdom Identity? There are many subtle and explicit rules within the Christian community, but also from the rest of the world that impact how we look when we walk out the door each day. Nevertheless, as with all things, it is crucial to return to the word of God for guidance because then, we can eliminate the confusion and the noise satan wants us saddled with. Scriptures, and the understanding of them, will never steer us wrong.


God made it clear that He does not rely on people's outer appearance to make determinations about them. He said this when speaking about one of David's brothers. 1 Samuel 16:7 - But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” This is an indication to all of us that we need to pay attention to beautifying our inner appearance - the part of us that God does focus on. That's where our true beauty lies.


It is this preoccupation with what we look like on the inside that Apostle Peter spoke on in 1 Peter 3:3-4 - Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. Although these verses were directed to the women in the church, they clearly apply to believing men as well. We all need to spend more time developing our inner selves so we are the sort of people who embody the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. A spirit filled with the peace Jesus gave in John 14:27, where He said, Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.


We often get so carried away with making sure that our outfits are impeccable, that we smell great, that we drive the right car, and live in the right zip code, while neglecting what our spirit needs to look like. External beauty is a gift from God and should not be condemned. God would not have created beautiful people and things if He did not like them. Plus, our bodies are the temple of God, and taking care of them is imperative. However, when the beautification and care of these bodies rise above our concern for the God who gave us those bodies, that is dangerous. Being so preoccupied by beauty and the trappings of beauty at the risk of our eternal souls is a problem many of us don't realize we're dealing with.


Look at it this way. How much time do you spend on your beauty routines and processes each day? Think about the time you spend improving your body, taking supplements, and more. How much time, effort, and money are you investing in looking good and presenting the best version of you to the world and to yourself? Does God get a similar amount of your focus? Do the godly things that will build up your spirit and edify your soul for your ultimate destination—heaven—receive equal attention? Again, this message is not just for Christian women but men as well. Jesus said in Matthew 6:21 - for where your treasure is, there your heart [your wishes, your desires; that on which your life centers] will be also (AMP). What do we treasure more - how people see us or how the Lord sees us?


Start giving God more of your time. Start being more intentional in applying the things He is teaching you through the Bible. Give more of your finances, forgiveness, love, support, testimony, and prayers to your fellow believers, your loved ones, and others. Please stop lying. Please stop meddling with occult practices. Please stop being argumentative and petty. Increasingly prioritize God's kingdom and righteousness, doing what is pleasing to Him, more so than what pleases people (Matthew 6:33). The Lord will help us focus on true beauty, which is unfading and brings a smile to God and brings His blessings down, IJMN, Amen.


I hope you will come back to worship and intercede in prayer on behalf of others. We gather for fellowship at Noon EST and you are welcome.




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